学习啦【谈话口才】 编辑：思媛 发布时间：2016-09-10
Communication is the activity of conveying information through the exchange of thought, messages, or information. There are many communicating methods, such as speech, visuals, signals, writing or body languages.
It plays an important role in social lives of human beings, which some people consider that it’s the basic of human existence.
On the one hand, it’s the communication that spreads information, making us know the news although it’s far from us. By communicating with others, people send and get information that helps us know about our surroundings. We all know that information is extremely important in our lives. On the other hand, communication builds personal relationship, which connects different people together. We live in the same society which makes personal relationship essential in lives. Only with communication can we build and keep good personal relationships with others. In addition, communication can eliminate misunderstandings and promote emotions. When we have misunderstandings with others, timely communicating is the only effective way to solve it.
In short, communication is essential to all people that everyone should realize that. Therefore, we should learn how to communicate with other effectively.
How to Communicate Effectively
Communication plays a significant role in our daily life, especially in modern society. Since we get along with other people in every field, we must learn how to communicate with people effectively.
Effective communication should be planned carefully. First, speak slowly and briefly in order to make ourselves understood completely. Second, express ourselves in all sincerity and with warmth. Third, concentrate on what the speaker says and appreciate his point of view. Moreover, we should give positive feedback by nodding or smiling while listening. Fourth, place ourselves in the place of others.
As far as I'm concerned, I communicate with other people in a positive way whether I'm in a merry mood or not. And I often express my own opinion genuinely and sincerely.
How to Communicate Effectively
Communicating with others is a big problem in daily life. Some people are easy to talk to oters, but some others not. When you want to talk to someone, firstly you should find some topics to talk about, but the topics should not included the private,such as age, marriage or wage. Secondly, pay attention to your attitude that do not make others feel uncomfortable. Comfort is the basic of communication. Thirdly, pay attention to your body language. Body language can transmit much information, such as your attitude, manners or something you do not realize. Finally, focus on your pacing. Don't talk too fast or too slow.
I’m a little sorry that you have some trouble in your life recently. However, we students should work hard and understand our parents always hope we’ll be able to achieve more in the future. As a young man, I once had the same experience as you do now. So I’d like to give you some advice, which I hope will help you a lot.
Firstly and most importantly, try to have heart-to-heart talks with your parents regularly, which will help you have a better understanding of each other. Secondly, you’d better give your parents a hand whenever they are too busy so that they will feel pleased. What’s more, if you make great progress in your study, your parents will allow you to do whatever you like most.
I really hope you’ll be able to live happily and healthily with your family.
I’m looking forward to your early reply.