俞敏洪:相信奋斗的力量（双语）(2)

俞敏洪:相信奋斗的力量（双语）

比如说现在的小年轻，我常常觉得很痛苦，为什么呢?第一个，虚荣心特别地强，虚荣心强他关注的什么呢?他关注的不是自己生活的状态，他关注的是周边人跟自己的比较以后，我能不能胜过周边人。比如说中国人结婚以后，中国的女人比自己的丈夫，比的最多的就是你看你看，你的同学怎么怎么样了。你看你看，隔壁的老张怎么样了，完了以后你看你这个窝囊废，到现在还这个样子。她从来不去想这个丈夫本身的好处在什么地方，他的优缺点在什么地方，她是通过个人比较，而比较的标准又特别地庸俗，不是比较对方更有钱，就是比较对方地位更高了。隔壁老张都升了局长了，你这窝囊废，你跟他是同班同学，你现在还是个处长，你看你怎么活的，还不如我嫁给老张算了，好面子就变成了一个人奋斗的动力，而不是说真正的追求幸福的这个心态去变成自己奋斗的动力，所以现在比如说很多年轻人都是贷款，买房买车，完了变成了房奴和车奴，完了生活就被毁掉了。为什么呢?因为你在年纪轻轻的时候就背上了负担以后，你有了一份工作你就不敢扔了，(被)锁在一份工作上当然很好，表面上你很专注，但是另外一个方向就是，你失去了一切让自己的生命可以在其它方向腾飞的机会。

　　For example, young now, I often feel very painful, why? First, particularly strong vanity, vanity strong he pay attention to what? He is not concerned with his life, he is concerned with the comparison of the surrounding people with their own future, I can not overcome the surrounding people. For example Chinese after marriage, China woman than her husband, than the most is you see you see, what your classmates. You see, how the next Zhang, after you see you this loser, still like this. She never went to the husband's own benefit in what place, what advantages and disadvantages in his place, she is the person comparison, and comparison criteria and in particular the vulgar, not to compare each other more money, is the position of the other side is higher. The next I raised the Secretary, you loser, you and he are classmates, you are still a director, you see how you live, not as good as I marry I forget it, good face became a power struggle, but is not that the mind and the pursuit of happiness to be true their power struggle, so now, like many young people buy a house to buy a car loan, a mortgage slave, finished and car mortgage slave, life has been destroyed. Why? Because after you when age gently on the back of the burden, you have a job you don't throw, (be) lock in a job is good, on the surface you are focused, but another direction is, you lose all your life can take off in the other the direction of the opportunity.

　　我当初之所以敢从北大出来，当初我自信地从北大出来，很简单，我没房没车，北大给我安排的当时的宿舍就是十平米的宿舍，我想这十平米的宿舍不住也罢。所以出来，天地都在我身边，就这种感觉，所以你不怕丢。一个人要不怕丢，因为你怕丢什么东西都不可能得到，你想谈恋爱你就可能失恋了。你想找工作你就可能会失业了。你要想高兴就可能会失落。你想创业你就可能会失败，所以失可能比你得还要更加地重要。

　　I'm from the north, at the outset I confidently from the north, is very simple, I have no house no car, north to my arrangement of the dormitory is ten square meters of dormitory, I think this ten square meters of dormitory not worth mentioning. So, the world is all in my side, just this kind of feeling, so you are not afraid of losing. A person should not be afraid of losing, because you are afraid of losing what things are impossible to get, you want to fall in love you may love. You want to find a job you may be unemployed. You want to be happy may be lost. You want to start you may fail, so the loss may be more important than you have to.

　　至于说我们的家庭背景，我在大学演讲的时候会遇到很多学生来跟我讨论问题，有同学说俞老师你看，你看我的同学，他们拥有无数的社会资源，现在社会资源越来越集中，完了像我们这样穷人家来的孩子，我们已经争取不到这个机会，这个世界是如此地不公平，我们这些人该怎么办?这个世界从来就没有公平过，即使你到美国，也不可能有这样的公平，但是中国其实还有另外一个好处，中国从来没有社会，真正的社会阶层等级概念。你从一个最普通的老百姓，只要你愿意奋斗出来，你就会被人一视同仁。所以尽管我们会发现周围有资源的人会比你更早地拥有资源，但是人生不是百米赛跑，让他们先得到好了，你给自己一辈子，这个自信人生二百年，会当击水三千里，我们也许活不到二百年，但是一百年总可以吧。所以在我大学毕业的时候，全班同学毕业典礼上，大家每个人都要上去表态，我上去说的我到今天还依依稀稀记得。我说同学们大家都很厉害，你们的学习成绩都那么好，但是请大家相信我不会放弃自己，你们做了五年的事情，我做十年，你们做十年的我做二十年，你们做二十年的我做四十年，实在不行，这辈子我要保持健康心态，保持心情愉快，身体健康，到了八十岁以后，把你们一个一个送走了，我再走。

　　As for our family background, when I was in University speech will encounter a lot of students to talk with me, some students said Yu teacher you see, you see my classmates, they have a lot of social resources, social resources are now more and more concentrated, finished like us poor to children, we have to in this opportunity, the world is so unfair, we these people how to do? This world was never fair, even if you go American, it is impossible to have such a fair, but Chinese actually have another benefit, Chinese never society, the real social hierarchy concept. You from one of the most ordinary people, as long as you are willing to fight for it, you will be make no exception. So although we will find the resources around them will earlier than you have the resources, but life is not a 100 meter race, let them get good, you give yourself a lifetime, this two hundred years of self-confidence in life, when will Jishui 3000, we may not live to two hundred years, but one hundred years total. So when I graduated from the University, the class graduation ceremony, everyone will go to statement, I said to this day I still remember so thin. I said the classmates all very much, your grades are so good, but please believe that I won't give up yourself, you do the things I do for five years, ten years, you have ten years of me for twenty years, you have twenty years to do forty years, it is not, in this life I want to maintain a healthy state of mind, to maintain a pleasant mood, physical health, after eighty years old, give you a go, I go.

　　其实人生奋斗没法比，每个人都有自己的事业，每个人都有自己的人生，最重要的什么呢?你跟自己比，就你跟自己比，你的今天是不是比昨天好，你的明天是不是比今天好，你的明年会不会比今年好，十年以后的你会不会比十年前站在这的今天的你要更好。还有的同学很有意思来问我说俞老师你看，我这个长相不怎么样，也影响了我的事业发展。比如说我去面试的时候，人家老板一看我长得这副挫样，他就不要我了。我说你敢这么说，说明你内心还是有点自信的，所以人是什么呢，人在三十岁以前长相可能是有一定的关系的。女孩子就算你再漂亮，过了三十岁你还能说老娘长得很妖娆吗?这感觉不对吧?就是说人是要有一点外表上的干净利落的感觉，但是到此为止了。一个男人天天在镜子面前花半个小时打扮自己，我真看到过这样的男人，半个小时都不止，我觉得男人连镜子都不应该照的。你要知道，你这么好的时间你不用在让自己的生命变得更加有魅力上面，有什么用呢?你再打扮，你能不老吗?你再打扮到年纪大了，你能皱纹不上脸吗?当你皱纹上脸的(时候)，皱纹中透露出的是庸俗还是透露的是智慧，这全是你现在要做的事情，所以同学们长相跟你没关系。有一次一个小男孩，我在演讲的时候跑上来，很矮。他说俞老师，我这样一个人，在男人堆里找不到自己，在女人堆里我也找不到自己，实在太矮了，他说你看我这辈子怎么办?我说，你知道鲁迅多高吗?1米58。你知道邓小平多高吗?1米57。你知道拿破仑多高吗?1米56。我说你多高，他说我1米55，我说你知道你应该变成什么样的人了吧。

　　In fact, life immeasurably, everyone has their own business, everyone has their own life, what is the most important? You tell yourself, you compare yourself, you Is it right? Today is better than yesterday, tomorrow you would Is it right? Better than today, you will next year than this year, ten years later, you will be better than ten years ago in this of you today. The students also very interesting to ask me that Yu teacher you see, my appearance is not how, also affected my career development. For example, when I went to the interview, boss look I have this pair of frustration, he do not want me. I say you dare to say so, that your heart is still a little self-confidence, so what is it, before thirty years old appearance may have a certain relationship. The girl even if you re beautiful, over the age of thirty you can say I am very enchanting? This doesn't feel right? That is to say the person should have a point on the surface of the smooth and clean feeling, but so far. A man every day in front of the mirror takes half an hour to dress myself, I really saw this man, more than half an hour, I think the man should not be taken even mirror. You know, you're such a good time you don't have to let my life become more attractive above, what is the use? You dress up again, can you not old? You go up to the older, you can wrinkle is not on the face? When you wrinkles on the face (time), revealed the wrinkles is vulgar or disclose is wisdom, this is all you have to do something now, so the students looks like you never mind. Once a little boy, I ran up during speeches, very short. He said Mr. Yu, I am such a person, not to find himself in the pile of men, in the woman that I can not find myself, really too short, he said that you see in this life I do? I said, do you know Lu Xun high? 1 meters 58. You know, Deng Xiaoping how high? 1 meters 57. You know how tall is Napoleon? 1 meters 56. I say you how high, he said I 1 m 55, I say you know you should become what kind of person.

　　人生是自己的选择，你要把自己变成的是一个能够不是对得起自己长相，而是对得起自己的内心，对得起自己的能力的人，应该是这样去做的。所以同学们，大家一起共同努力，只要你自己相信，奋斗能让你改变自己，你的生命一定会越来越灿烂，我的演讲到此为止，谢谢大家!

　　Life is a choice, you have to turn yourself into a can not live up to their appearance, but to live up to his heart, to pay their own capacity, should be to do so. So the students, everyone together, as long as you believe, strive to let you change yourself, your life will be more and more brilliant, my speech so far, thank you!