学习啦【英语美文欣赏】 编辑：韦彦 发布时间：2016-09-29
展示个性 Expressing one’s individuality
A most curious and useful thing to realize is that one never knows the impression one is creating on other people.
One may often guess pretty accurately whether it is good, bad, or indifferent --- some people render it unnecessary for one to guess, they practically inform one --- but that is not what I mean. I mean much more than that. I mean that one has one’s self no mental picture corresponding to the mental picture which one’s personality leaves in the minds of one’s friends.
Has it ever struck you that there is a mysterious individual going around, walking the streets, calling at houses for tea, chatting, laughing, grumbling, arguing, and that all your friends know him --- without saying more than a chance, cautious word to you; and that that person is you?
Supposing that you came into a drawing-room where you were having tea, do you think you would recognize yourself as an individuality? duanwenw.com I think not. You would be apt to say to yourself as guests do when disturbed in drawing-rooms by other guests: “Who’s this chap? Seems rather queer. I hope he won’t be a bore.” And your first telling would be slightly hostile. Why, even when you meet yourself in an unsuspected mirror in the very clothes that you have put on that very day and that you know by heart, you are almost always shocked by the realization that you are you. And now and then, when you have gone to the glass to arrange your hair in the full sobriety of early morning, have you not looked on an absolute stranger, and has not that stranger piqued your curiosity? And if it is thus with precise external details of form, colour, and movement, what may it not be with the vague complex effect of the mental and moral individuality?
A man honestly tries to make a good impression. What is the result?
The result merely is that his friends, in the privacy of their minds, set him down as a man who tries to make a good impression. If much depends on the result of a single interview, or a couple of interviews, a man may conceivably force another to accept an impression of himself which he would like to convey. duanwenw.com But if the receiver of the impression is to have time at his disposal, then the giver of the impression may just as well sit down and put his hands in his pockets, for nothing that he can do will modify or influence in any way the impression that he will ultimately give. The real impress is, in the end, given unconsciously, not consciously; and further, it is received unconsciously, not consciously. It depends partly on both persons. And it is immutably fixed beforehand. There can be no final deception…
Today, I will not strike back. If some-one is rude, if someone is impatient or if someone is unkind, I will not respond in like manner.
Today, I will forgive. I will forgive any hurt or injury that comes my way.
Today, I will be careful about what I say. duanwenw.com I will carefully choose and guard my words, making sure that I am not spreading gossip.
Today, I will make an extra effort to help share the burden of my friends and make their life better.
Today, I will treat others the way I wish to be treated. I will practise the golden rule, "Do to others as you would be done by." with everyone I encounter.
Today, I will raise the spirits of someone that has been discouraged. My smile, my words and my expression of support can make all the difference to someone who is struggling in life.
与人为善Show Kindness to Others
Can you say that you are nice to every-one around you?
And if they are not nice to you, do you just let it go, instead of forming resentment?
Can you remember whether you have shown an act of kindness towards another person throughout the course of your day?
To show kindness is to give more of yourself to people who need you without wanting any Thing in return. When you go home today, duanwenw.com you should tell your family you love them and thank them for being in your life. It is good to touch someone’s heart and fill it with hope for the future.
Then, when you rest your head on your pillow at night you can say that you have done the very best you could today. If not, when you wake in the morning, you will have that opportunity all over again.
Remember what life is all about. It is about kindness towards others and the people you love.
Tomorrow, reach out your hand to someone in need and make that person’s life better.