学习啦【英语美文欣赏】 编辑：韦彦 发布时间：2016-09-30
永不止步Never Stop Reaching
It is only when a seed grows that it can produce more seeds. It is only when you express joy and satisfaction in your own life that you can help others to know joy and satisfaction in their lives.
It’s no use making yourself miserable for the sake of helping others. The best way to help others is from a position of strength and fulfillment rather than from a position of weakness and despair.
The goals, dreams and desires you have are yours for a reason. They are there to show you and force you to make the most of your life.
It is not selfish to be your very best. What’s truly selfish is to let your huge potential go unrealized.
What have you always wanted to know, always wanted to have,duanwenw.com always wanted to do, and always wanted to be? It is never too late to honestly answer this question, and to answer it with all the colorful details and passion that it deserves.
The answer to that question is your truly beautiful and unique gift to life. Never stop reaching for the best you can imagine; for when you fulfill your highest potential, you raise the whole world with you.
幽默的治疗作用The healing power of humor
A funny bone could be a lifesaver. Besides, it makes life’s adversities easier to handle.
Dr.Noman Cousins, author of Anatomy of an Illness, is a prime example of how a person can cure himself of a terminal illness.
He had a 1/500 chance of recovery, but Cousins wanted to prove that if there was anything like mind over matter, he’s make it a reality. He figured if negative emotions caused negative chemicals in our body, then the reverse must be true too. Positive emotions, duanwenw.com like happiness and laughter, would bring positive chemicals into our system. He moved from the hospital to a hotel and rented humorous movies and literally cured himself by laughing.
Of course, medical help is important, duanwenw.com but the will to live for the patient is equally if not more important。
One day, if someone gets up on the right side of the bed and calls me and says:’ You are the greatest person on earth. You are doing a great job and I want you to know I am honored to call you a friend.” I know he is sincere. How does it make me fell? Great. But the next day, duanwenwcom he gets up on the wrong side side of the bed, picks up the phone and says:” You rascal, you cheat, you crook! You are biggest fraud in town.” How does it make me feel? Terrible.
So the first day when he says, “You are the greatest guy,” I feel great and the next day when he says, “you rascal,” I feel terrible. Who is controlling my life? Obviously, he is, Is that the way I want to through life? Not at all. That is being externally driven.
I want to be internally driven. When he calls me and says I am the greatest guy it is good to hear those words. But even if he doesn’t say those words, in my own estimation, I am still a god human being. And the next day when he rips me apart, he can’t really, because in my own estimation, duanwenw.com I am still a good human being. When people make statements like, “You make me angry, ” the focus of control is external. But if I say I am angry or I choose to be angry, the focus of control is internal.
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.