学习啦【英语文摘】 编辑：韦彦 发布时间：2016-08-30
Divorce is painful-unhappy marriage are wrose.It will be tough enough to make a life with another person if you pick the right person.Don't start married life with two strikes against the two of you.You can avoid this irreversible error.Try the following tips.
Before you marry,think long and hard what marriage means to you .Why are you getting married?To eliminate a deficit in your existence (for example,loneliness)or to enjoy life more fully by sharing it with someone else?The latter is a healthier reason.
What explicit expectations do you have for a spouse?Are there any behaviors you insist upon?What kind of relationship are you hoping for?Discuss the answers to these questions with your future spouse.
Over a period of weeks discuss the expectations both of you have for marriage.Decide what's really important,resolve any differences,and negotiate to the point where you can willingly buy into cach other's expectations before you tie the knot.
Marry based on compatibility,caring ,and common values,Slight adjustment in these areas may be possible,but don't hope for ,or expect,major changes.
Do you like everything about the way your future spouse has treated you before you decide to get married?If not,remember:it won't get any better after the ceremony.
What do you enjoy more-the things you do for your prospective spouse or the things that he or she does for you?The future looks right for the two of you if you each respond to this question by saying,"The things I do for her(him)."
Can you say with confidence that you are looking forward to growing old with this person?
Love makes the world go around.
Love to us human is what water to fish. Love shines the most beautiful light of humanity, we born in it, we live by it. Too often we take it as granted, but we should know love is a priceless gift we should cherish. But how to cherish the love? I have heard a saying: the quickest way to receive love is to give it; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
It is important for us to learn to love as the first class in our life. Only when you know how to love than you will be a real man in this world. Love brings us warmth in the fearful coldness, love brings us bright when life gets hard and dark. Love brings us confidence toward life when we are tired out and want to give up.
Love deserves all the admiring words, and love is even beyond the life and death. That is what love is all about in my eyes.
Can it really be sixty-two years ago that I first saw you?It is truly a lifetime,I know. But as I gaze into your eyes now, it seems like only yesterday that I first saw you, in that small cafe in Hanover Square.
From the moment I saw you smile, as you opened the door for that young mother and her newborn baby, I knew. I knew that I wanted to share the rest of my life with you. I still think of how foolish I must have looked, as I gazedat you, that first time. I remember watching you intently, as you off your hat and loosely your short dark hair with your fingers.I felt myself becoming immersed in your every detail,as you places your hat on the table and cupped your hands around the hot cup of tea,gently blowing the steam away with your pouted lips.
From that moment, everything seemed to make perfect sense to me. The people in the cafe and the busy street outside all disappeared into a hazy blur. All I could see was you.All through my life,I have relived that very first day. Many, many times I have sat and thought about that first day, and how for a few fleeting moments I am there, feeling-again what is like to know true love for the very first time. It pleases me that I can still have those feelings now after all those years,and I know l will always have them to comfort me.
Not even as I shook and trembled uncontrollably in the trenches, did I forget your face. I would sit huddled into the wet mud, terrified, as the hails ofbullets and mortars crashed down around me. I would clutch my rifle to my heart, and think again of that very first day we met. I would cry out in fear, as the noise of war beat down around me. But, as I thought of you and saw you smiling back at me, everything around me would become silent, and I would be with you again for a few precious moments, far from the death and destruction. It would not be until I opened my eyes once again, that I would see and hear the camage ofthe war around me.
I know both our children love you dearly; they are outside the door now, waiting.Do you remember how I panicked like a mad man when Jonathon was born?I can still picture you laughing and smiling at me now, as I clumsily held him for the very first time in my arms.1 watched as your laughter faded into tears, as I stared at him and cried my own tears of joy.
Sarah and Tom arrived this morning with little Tessie. Can you remember how we both hugged each other tightly when we saw our tiny granddaughter for the first time?I can't believe she will be eight next month.I am trying not to cry, my love, as I tell you how beautiful she looks today in her pretty dress and red shiny shoes, she reminds me so much of you that first day we met. She has her hair cut short now, just like yours was all those years ago. When I met her at the door her smile wrapped around me like a warm glove,just like yours used to do, my darling.I know you are tired, my dear, and I must let you go. But I love you so much and it hurts to do so.