如何在说不的时候不伤害别人

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　　如何在说不的时候不伤害别人

　　总有些时候我们必须说不。但如何说才能不使别人不快呢? 以下是一些英语短语，或许能帮助你说不的同时也不会伤害到想找你做事的人的感情。

　　I can't right now, but maybe later. 这意味着将来可能行。

　　Unfortunately, I've had a few things come up. 这是指有意外的事情发生了。

　　I'm trying to focus1 on finishing off some other things. 这是另一种方式表示你有一些没有完成的工作。

　　I'm sorry I can't.这直接表明了这对你而言是不可能的。

　　I can't at that time, but I'm happy to help you with something else later. 这是一种非常礼貌的方式。你虽然拒绝了但是却提供对其他事的帮助。

　　Sorry but that isn't my strong suit.这是另一种表达方式表示你并不擅长此道。

　　I'm sure you will do fine on your own.这是告诉别人自己完成此事的一种非常礼貌的方式。

　　I'm afraid I'm committed2 to something else. 如果你另有计划可以这么说。

　　I really don't enjoy that kind of activity.或者，我不喜欢做这事。

　　I'm sorry, but I have an emergency to attend to.这是指你有些紧急的事必须要做。

　　扩展：用英语与客户潇洒的告别

　　潇洒告别

　　A: I really must be going1 now.

　　B: But you just got2 here. Can't you stay a little longer?

　　A: That's very nice of you, but I really can't.

　　B Well, it's too bad (遗憾) that you have to go.

　　A: Thanks very much. It was3 a great /lovely party!

　　B: It was our pleasure4.

　　一般道别

　　1. We really enjoyed your company5. (我们喜欢与你为伴。)

　　2. Well, then, perhaps we can get together another time.

　　3. Please give my best regards7 to your sister.

　　4. I'll be seeing you!

　　5. A: Take care8 of yourself9. /Have a good trip. /Enjoy yourself. /Have fun! /Take it easy!

　　6. I shall10 miss all of you. Let's get together soon.

　　7. I hope11 I can see you again. /Let's meet more often.

　　来宾道别

　　8. Well, (I'm afraid) I'd better be on my way /leaving.

　　9. I'm sorry, but I've got to be on my way.

　　10. I'm afraid I stayed too long.

　　11. I think it's about time we got going.

　　12. I really have to rush12. (我真的得赶快。)

　　13. I enjoyed myself13 very much.

　　14. I'm glad to have met you.

　　15. I really enjoyed the meal14.

　　16. I really had15 a pleasant16 /enjoyable /great evening.

　　17. I had lots of fun tonight. /That was a wonderful dinner. /I had a wonderful / great time being18 with you.

　　18. I enjoyed every minute of the party.

　　19. Thank you very much for a wonderful party.

　　20. I hope someday20 maybe you'll be able17 to visit my family in Beijing.

　　21. I really enjoyed talking with you.

　　22. Please don't be in such21 a hurry.

　　23. Would22 you like to stay for dinner.

　　24. Did23 you have a good time today?

　　25. You'll have to come and see us soon.

　　26. A: Thank you for inviting24 me.

　　B: It was a pleasure having you. Please come again.

　　27. A: Thanks for all your hospitality25. B: You're welcome.

　　28. A: Have a nice weekend. B: Same to you.

　　29. A: Thank you for everything.

　　B: Well, have a nice trip and best wishes to your wife26.

　　A: Thanks. I hope we meet again soon.

　　30. A: If you're ever19 in Xi'an, look me up. I'd love to see you again.

　　B: Sure. I will. You can count on that.